http://www.CoachNorth.com/Texting --- 5 Texts To Make A Man Feel Jealousy
When talking about relationships, one of the most common issues couples face is jealousy. Whether he’s anxious about her spending time with male friends, or she feels insecure when comparing herself to the females in his life, not being able to overcome jealousy is a pretty awful feeling.
THAT SAID, when used correctly, jealousy can be an extremely powerful tool for making a man want you. You may think this sounds crazy, but stick around, because I’m about to share five text messages that will stir up that green-eyed monster in the best way possible.
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As I already mentioned, today I’m going to share with you some text messages that you can send the man you’re into to make him jealous. Before I share these five types of texts with you though, I want to start by giving you a quick but important pointer, so grab some paper and a pen, and repeat this after me so that this becomes your new philosophy: don’t. reply. to. his. messages. right. away.
Got it? Good. Now here’s why.
Since part of the magic of making a guy fall for you is not being too clingy or available, if you’re answering his text messages the second he sends them, then guess what? You are going to look pretty desperate. That’s why a good rule of thumb is to wait anywhere from ten minutes to half an hour before responding to him. Of course that changes if you’re having a conversation or discussing a time sensitive issue, but unless he needs to hear from you right away, hold back and let some time pass between texts — it’ll save you from looking like you are sat by the phone, desperately waiting for his name to pop up, and it’ll keep him curious about what you’re so preoccupied with. Don’t brush this tip aside, because when used with the five types of text messages I’m about to share with you, it will do wonders for getting your guy jealous.
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Now, let’s get rolling.
1. Be mysterious about what you are doing.
There are few things more powerful than the imagination, and when left to it’s own creations, there’s no saying what stories it can unravel. So, if you’re looking to make a man jealous, then what better what to do so than by withholding some information when it comes to your plans, and leaving blank spaces for him to guess, wonder about or fill in himself.
Of course this requires balance. I mean, if you don’t tell the poor guy anything then he’s not going to get jealous, he’ll get bored. So be fair here, and decide when is and when is not a good time to text in cryptic.
A good example of a mysterious text is something like “I had so much fun last night, but I’m paying for it today!” or “Just getting back from an awesome lunch date, I’ll message you in a bit!” These types of texts work because while they’re seemingly innocent messages, his mind will race with thoughts about who you were with, and what happened. When this happens there’s a good chance he’ll ask you for more details. If this is the case, then do supply him with these, but again, if you can create some mystery in your response then you’ll be sure to push his jealousy buttons.
2. Causally mention other guys.
“Chris gave me a ride home from work today,” or “I’m going out to check out that new martini lounge with Ryan” … those little mentions of other men will have a huge impact when it comes to awakening the green-eyed-monster in your man.
To explain why, let’s reverse rolls for a moment and take about a scenario that most of you can probably relate to.
Let’s say you are talking to a guy who you’re interested in and he mentions other females. Right away your brain starts processing that he’s referring to other woman, and you can’t help but wonder who she is and what their relationship is all about. Is it sexual? Did they ever date? Are they just friends? Is he in any way attracted to her? Well guess what, that kind of jealousy works both ways.
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