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The skill of self confidence | Dr. Ivan Joseph | TEDxRyersonU

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Never miss a talk! SUBSCRIBE to the TEDx channel: http://bit.ly/1FAg8hB As the Athletic Director and head coach of the Varsity Soccer team at Ryerson University, Dr. Joseph is often asked what skills he is searching for as a recruiter: is it speed? Strength? Agility? In Dr. Joseph's TEDx Talk, he explores self confidence and how it is not just the most important skill in athletics, but in our lives. In the spirit of ideas worth spreading, TEDx is a program of local, self-organized events that bring people together to share a TED-like experience. At a TEDx event, TEDTalks video and live speakers combine to spark deep discussion and connection in a small group. These local, self-organized events are branded TEDx, where x = independently organized TED event. The TED Conference provides general guidance for the TEDx program, but individual TEDx events are self-organized.* (*Subject to certain rules and regulations)
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Nasreddine EL Guezar (21 minutes ago)
This could turn the person to be addicted to self-manipulating talk. The speaker in the video didn't offer practical ways to improve one's self-confidence. He only repeated the sum of self-help books and motivation tapes in an attractive way.
Kalenga Mwape (3 days ago)
I'm always fear in public
Out of curiosity, what makes you feel that fear in public?
railzip (9 days ago)
Repetition. Watching this at 3am, the night before one of the biggest presentations in my life.
Mm Mmm (5 days ago)
+railzip im proud of you buddy.
Abyssal Rayz (7 days ago)
+railzip No problem! I'm glad to hear it went well!
railzip (7 days ago)
Abyssal Rayz pretty good. The intro sucked because I was nervous but finished strong. The more presentations I do the better things should get. Thanks for asking
Abyssal Rayz (7 days ago)
Hey how'd it go?
Hamad Alrahmani (9 days ago)
What is the video that he is talking about ?
djmiraj23 (9 days ago)
Superb
sagipho (11 days ago)
I watched this video 10000 times and now I can watch it again with confidence.
Alan Manambaev (11 days ago)
Ahahhahaha there are subtitles on Kazakh but not Russian
Doge Wan (12 days ago)
Thank you for this wonderful video. Really helpful.
WILLIAM HOLLA (12 days ago)
Amen!
Brent Van Den Abbeele (13 days ago)
Shouldn't there be more attention for self-confidence at schools? I think a lot of young people question themselves, that should be trained by teachers at school like math for example...
Agreed
The Challenge (13 days ago)
Thanks very much for this 👏
Derajimed (14 days ago)
أحسنت
Sila Ferni (14 days ago)
wowww i loved it!!fantastic talk!!
Evan Stephen (15 days ago)
Ned Ryerson! Needlenose Ned? Ned the Head? Come on buddy. Case Western High.
Ivy Yesterday (15 days ago)
The one talk I always come back to. So important
DCfuels (15 days ago)
Dang he is sooo right!
kiran sharma (17 days ago)
I have very less confident..so should i do
What did you take away from this ted talk?
HN4818 (17 days ago)
Excellent speech
시후 김 (18 days ago)
시후 김 (18 days ago)
MiMari26 G (19 days ago)
Confident and I applaud people for their accomplishments. Everyone has a different struggle. It's unfortunate that certain people have such low self-esteem the only way the feel better about themselves is by putting someone down.
Riska Widia (21 days ago)
i think self affirmation is really important , many success people do this, and i think it's can change much our live be better .....
Yesss, our own voice is louder than anyone else's and we can consciously choose what to tell ourselves
KJ The Beast (27 days ago)
This is good
C A (27 days ago)
I would add to tell people the truth. Don’t bs around and be direct that is how I have improved
Yesss, it's a powerful place to be in when you don't have to hide anything from anyone
dragon Slayer (1 month ago)
All those who are struggling with failure there is a simple solution just remember this question "what would you do if you could not fail " ? Would you even do anything anymore therefore we can deduce that we do something because there is a chance of failure therefore we do things to fail so do not give up.
I like the reframe, FAIL = First Attempt In Learning
Irregular Naomi (1 month ago)
"Get away from the people who will tear you down" - I love that one.
Pepper Rutland (1 month ago)
Great info, thanks for sharing!
cupcakecali (1 month ago)
i needed this. Thank you.
D Kirk (1 month ago)
Well this works, so long as you catch them while they are good. If you tell them that they are doing good when they are doing bad or wrong....will create a personality disorder at some point. I know this to be true, because I seen this happen to several people over the years. I’m running into many young adults who are very narcissistic these days, because their egos were excessively stroked. You cannot tell them anything whatsoever.
Merce Conghos (1 month ago)
I so needed this !!!!!!thank you
Big Daddy (1 month ago)
I have been in college recently I have been dealing with burning out and I need motivation this is a very good video.
TheMrKlassy (1 month ago)
There's a fine line between positivity and delusion.
Agreed, that's why it's so important to have people in your life that you trust who you can get feedback from
Manoj Vemula (1 month ago)
Great speech. Already started believing in my self .What is with the 3.8k idiots who disliked such a wonderful video?
miketriedit (1 month ago)
Catch them when they're good!
Zakk sga (1 month ago)
Catch them when they're good. Revolutionary!!!
마츠이레나 (1 month ago)
I love YOU ♱♡‿♡♰, and I love TEDx Talks...seems to be good luck come to me ㅜ.ㅜ
Muhammad Ashraf PV (1 month ago)
Great message
aden (1 month ago)
My problem is that I think to much and I also don’t have confidence. I can only be around one friend and be 100% and have a great time. Of course that one friend is my best friend and pretty much my only friend and he’s a good person. I’m surrounded by rude people everyday and it’s weird. I can easily talk to people it’s just that I don’t know *how* to act like myself and I can only act my true self around this one friend. It’s like I act like a completely different person to everyone except my friend. When I act like this to the other people, I feel rude and this is not how I want to act but it’s like I’m being forced and have no control over it. If anyone can help would be appreciated (I’m a 7th grade boy)
aden (15 days ago)
Confidence Coaching with Gwun - Thanks!
Glad to hear you found a solution, you got this!
aden (15 days ago)
Also I fixed this problem
aden (15 days ago)
When I don’t act myself I feel rude.
Out of curiosity, what makes you think you're being rude when you act like yourself in front of others?
Lliam Bruce (1 month ago)
Confidence is an internal system based on experiences and our environment. talking and using therapy as a tool for self development can be massively beneficial.
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NINA M (1 month ago)
This is truly one of the best videoes
Palak Srivastava (1 month ago)
Loved it
Francisco Raposo (1 month ago)
I'm in a very hard moment in my life but this video sent me some good vibes right to my mind in a way of looking at myself as a confident person and not letting negative thoughts destroying me. Thanks for the video!
lubinda25 (1 month ago)
Amazing!
Crystal Rampersad (1 month ago)
I am the captain of my ship and the master of my fate
Jonathan Sawadogo (1 month ago)
Fate*
Repetition, repetition, and repetition. Catch them when they are good. Self confidence is how you interpret it.
Tigest Gemechu (1 month ago)
amazing
neelam dwivedi (1 month ago)
Great Speech👍 Thanks alot
노대섭 (1 month ago)
Excellent and emotional speech !!  Be confident!
Masoud Ebrahimi (1 month ago)
Awesome
beyza nur oruç (1 month ago)
successful even perfect
deborah holloway (1 month ago)
I have been an inner-city elementary teacher for 35 years. I know your talk was geared to adults, but I would like to make a plea here for you to consider offering a similar talk to young people . I think it would help many of them get through those awkward years of intermediate and middle school, when their hormones are kicking in and peer pressure can be more influential then reason. In short, please consider making some of your motivational speeches with a G rating. I was prepared to show this video to my students until I heard you use profanity. Even though I'm sure kids today have heard it, as an educator and child advocate, I can't condone exposing young people to it. Awesome message, would love to see a youth version.
Agreed, younger individuals can benefit from this kind of work more than ever now
Brandon Kroll (1 month ago)
6:15....I was brushing my teeth for the evening when he said that...
Sha (1 month ago)
“Get away from people who brings you down” But.. uh how am i suppose to get rid of my whole family
Anne Ferreira (1 month ago)
Try to tell them that they are making you feel bad...if it doesn't work build a new family,blood and family have nothing in common
Karla Chan (1 month ago)
I really need to hear this right cause i just can't be confident at myself I always think that I'm a failure and a awkward person. It's like I'm always ruining the grades of my groupmates. Thank you for the inspiring message 😊
Close your eyes and might think Denzel Washington is talking.
Alexis Lopez (1 month ago)
So we shouldn’t tell people when they’re wrong? ....
There are ways to do that from a grounded and respectful place!
Wannabe smarter (1 month ago)
maybe Johnny would feel jealous of Freda
English Coach (1 month ago)
Did a motivation truck just go over me or what? Great talk!!!
Max Bense (1 month ago)
So i just found out my chrush liked me back but i didnt see it because i thought nobody would like me, my hope was always immediatly destroyed by fear. Thats the reason i am here
Max Bense (1 month ago)
Gwun Chin - Life Coaching idk i guess i am gonna spend more time doing hobbies and school so i can focus on other things. I know she doesnt like me anymore but its to hard to explain how i know that
What will you do now?
TheREKEBISHA (1 month ago)
Does this guy sound like Denzel washington?
William Bahitwa (1 month ago)
"No one will believe in you unless you do". Great
Jun Li (1 month ago)
Wow so true
Jun Li (1 month ago)
Love it love it love it
Alvin Patrick Kingeyi (1 month ago)
Fantastic, powerful and just what I needed to kick-start 2019...thanks Dr Joseph 💪
Curious_Di (1 month ago)
"no one will believe in you unless you do" - well said!
jess a (1 month ago)
he sounds a bit like coach Steve
The Unusual (1 month ago)
Beautiful. What insights
Julie G. (1 month ago)
Indeed..be yourself and practice postive affirmation.
Liz Lee (1 month ago)
This inspires me to become a better version of myself. It was nice listening to your words. Very encouraging, clear and precise. I hope to hear a lot from you. God bless you ❤️
Imran Khalil (1 month ago)
Sheetz! These comments got no sarcasm, period.
Allister Tenpenny (2 months ago)
With a mustache like that, I trust him
Neil Revin (2 months ago)
So inspiring... Thank you man, that's a really great talk. I love it!
Most watched (2 months ago)
"I am the captain of my soul and master of my fate."
Marilyn Barker (2 months ago)
Excellent!! Why would anyone give this a thumbs down??
santosh reddy (2 months ago)
Finally I found the video i needed
I want to be your student my teacher :). Glad to you
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Esraa Mansour (2 months ago)
Woooooow
Kenny Ethan Jones (2 months ago)
So elegant and positive - thank you!
Zahid H Khan (2 months ago)
Thank You.
dupe brown (2 months ago)
beautiful
Adriana Levinne (2 months ago)
This guy is good is all about your own perception and to quit the negative self talk, motivation repetition and good self talk. ❤️
Elizete L. (2 months ago)
Thanks for reminding me how great I am! So tired of the bad self talk!
l (2 months ago)
This video changed my life!!! thank You!
Lisette Rivera (2 months ago)
I am the captain 👩‍✈️ of my ship, and the master of my fate!!! Love that! Thank you 😊
Ruhiya Rahim (2 months ago)
Thank you for energy, you’re the best ❤️❤️
Tsundere Yukimura (2 months ago)
All I can say is. Wow. (applauds)
Flash Gordon (2 months ago)
Lance Armstrong's self affirmation; 'I am the best, just don't forget to take the performance enhancers and steroids, according to the dosage schedule'.
J F (2 months ago)
You are awesome!!
Michael J Freeman (2 months ago)
Thank You....
Ambrosia Devyani (2 months ago)
Tesla built that light bulb.
graley F (2 months ago)
Awesome!! thanks for sharing this with us.
Yuki (2 months ago)
I don't have to do what others do. I can do it if I want to and I can do it differently.
Kate Johannesen (2 months ago)
His accent is like a mix of 6 different accents...
cb45 (1 month ago)
Minnesotan, Irish..
Mr Ignacio (2 months ago)
Kate Johannesen I really like it
Karol Mendes (2 months ago)
that made me cry :') Was it supposed to?
Tumbash Tumbash (2 months ago)
I thought your voice sounds like Danzel Washington voice. No kidding he definitely sounds like Danzel Washington!
Achmad Kishan Bussoni (2 months ago)
Thank you Dr. Ivan
BeastMode FIAZCO (2 months ago)
naaa ill just take adderall, lol jk no but not a"simple solution" nor suitable for sole purpose or longterm tho will give extreme confidance, fuckin steroid of life it is, an must be respected or it can easily train wreck ya
PLAYAMADE JOJO (2 months ago)
What if the people in your family the ones that brings you down?
Rahul KM (2 months ago)
Watching in 2018, the Livestrong example feels so off now. Oh the times we live in! 😱 😱
Karl-Heinz Bickelhaupt (2 months ago)
Dr. Ivan......you're THE MAN. I haven't even finished this video and I am typing this praising you! Keep up the good work.

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